Updated: Nov 3, 2021
Christians! (Insert deep sigh.)
Christians are a strange bunch- and I can say that because I am one.
We wear clothing with popular “Christian-ese” phrases to express what we wouldn’t ordinarily say.
We become indignant when non-Christians spew rhetoric that contradicts the gospel.
We say we want to protect our rights to freedom of speech and talk about the Bible, but when it’s time to speak, we rarely say anything.
Yes indeed, we are a peculiar people. We mean well- we really do. The problem is we love to talk about the love of Jesus, grace, and redemption, but most times we don’t go much further. Occasionally, there will be a sermon or Bible reading plan on overcoming trials and ‘passing the test’, but for the most part we don’t like to talk about the deep, emotional issues that affect people each day.
Now, don’t misunderstand. We need people to evangelize and share the love, life, and ministry of Jesus, but I assert it shouldn’t stop there. In a world where suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death worldwide for people 15-24 years old, race relations remain volatile, and studies show that 81% of women and 43% of men experience sexual harassment- globally we’re putting up real numbers...and that’s not a good thing.
While this is only a condensed list of problems that affect millions of people every single day, coincidentally, these are some of the same topics Christians will not discuss, yet the Bible does.
Elijah was one of the greatest prophets in the Old Testament. Ok, let’s just say it- one of the greatest period and he struggled with suicidal thoughts. (1 Kings 19:1-4)
This man of God had suicidal thoughts which tells us that as Christians we are not immune to struggles with suicide, anxiety, or depression. And if we’re really paying attention, we’ll notice he had these thoughts while alone and after accomplishing major feats.
Samaritans and Jews
Samaritans were a mixed race and were despised by Jews. There was a long standing prejudice between the two races. We see this with the Samaritan woman at the well, the healing of the ten lepers, and the parable of the Good Samaritan.
Throughout scripture, we see Jesus provide example after example of how to treat people. He often used parables to highlight the equality of everyone- particularly Samaritans who were deemed an inferior race.
Joseph ultimately became the second highest leader in Egypt and he suffered through sexual harassment at the hands of an employer. His harassment continued so far that when he quit, his employer was upset and falsely accused him of rape. (Genesis 39:1-20)
Hagar was a slave who was a victim of sexual harassment. After being given to her master’s husband she became pregnant and was subsequently mistreated for getting pregnant. (Genesis 16:1-6)
Both Hagar and Joseph represent the many extremes of sexual harassment. They represent victims (both men and women) who try to run; who remain quiet; and even those who try to speak and are silenced. It’s probably safe to assume that Joseph and Hagar experienced all the emotions that come with being victimized. These Old Testament figures show us that sexual harassment has been around for centuries and even still God uses these evil situations and turns them around for good.
The bottom line is that our stained glass view of the world isn’t working. If Christians don’t speak about the topics affecting the world from a biblical standpoint:
our children will continue to learn from tv, magazines, and social media
non-believers will never take Jesus or Christianity seriously
we won’t make a real, meaningful impact in the world for those who are hurting
Ok, the women’s group was really sad about the death of Kate Spade, but was a support group started for people who struggle with mental health issues? Were resources, like a list of professional Christian counselors added to the church’s directory?
Yes, our churches are filled with people of all races, but are we discussing the issues that affect people of those races? Are our churches leading examples of what peaceful race relations should look like in our communities?
Of course #MeToo was a viral movement, but have we taken a close look at how it’s impacting our congregations? Are members of our churches being healed from shame and guilt surrounding harassment incidents?
Let’s Talk it Out
The beauty of the Bible is that it neither covers up or ignores these issues. Therefore, as Christians we have to be able to openly discuss these topics as well.
We should not sweep these topics under the proverbial rug as if they don’t exist or as if ‘real’ Christians don’t struggle with these concerns every single day.
Here are four things we can do:
Ask if you can pray with the person. Never neglect the opportunity to pray with someone who is hurting.
Provide biblical examples to illustrate that what this person is experiencing isn’t new or unusual and verses they can reference.
Provide resources to professionals. Your pastor is a great start, but may not be the professional a person needs. If they elect to seek counsel elsewhere, do not belittle their decision. Choosing to speak with a professional counselor or therapist, doesn’t discredit your pastor. It’s not about them anyway.
First Published on Relevant